On a sombre note...

Colleague's good friend's dad passed away on sunday and it was quite a shock even though i didn't know her that well. But i can imagine that death in the family can never be an easy thing to cope with. He was only 53. Looks like colleague is having a pretty hard time too and i know that relationship with the dad has not always been an easy one. But as she said, perhaps when the person dies, you don't really remember the bad things. I think humans are ultimately forgiving even though sometimes you would wish for the forgiving and understanding to have come earlier. I know this would probably stay with my colleague and the good friend for a long time to come but somehow, as long as they are there for each other, i think they would help each other cope with all the questions unanswered. Death usually meant leaving behind alot of questions marks but then, would these questions have mattered after the person have moved on to another place? Hoping that the family will pull through this.

My condolences...